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“When I was a student I hardly paid attention to relationships and sex. The guys around me kept talking about how great sex they had that weekend with their girlfriend, but I was like ‘that’s not too bad, don’t exaggerate so much “.”

“I hadn’t really been able to put the puzzle pieces in place at the time, so somehow my relationships were missing.”

“I’ve sometimes fantasized about being attracted to men, but I’ve always hidden that away. Only after living with a woman for five years, which was very disappointing in terms of sex, did I investigate. And my first gay experience: wow! Now the last puzzle pieces fell into place. I was now 34.”

“I come from a non-confessional family. We could talk about anything. My coming out was a much bigger problem for me than for my family. It turned out afterwards. Now I have been living happily with my boyfriend for 23 years.”

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